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Fathering Our Future is the podcast for dads devoted to helping men love being dads, helping dads become better dads every day, and building a community of dads so that together we can better father our future. Fatherhood is a rewarding privilege but it is also the greatest challenge. Fortunately, we do not have to figure it all out ourselves and do it alone. This podcast explores various topics relating to fatherhood and provides logical, Biblical, and communal guidance to help you start asking the right questions. The world needs great fathers today and the future needs people of integrity and compassion. We are fathering those people, we are fathering our future.
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![Interview with Mike Thompson | Tackling Mental Health](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Sep 25, 2023
Interview with Mike Thompson | Tackling Mental Health
Monday Sep 25, 2023
Monday Sep 25, 2023
We are men and we are tough. However, that does not make us impervious to mental struggles. We are humans, we are broken, and we all have problems.
Mike Thompson, online fitness coach and former police officer, joins me to talk about mental health struggles with men. Mike personally suffered from severe anxiety and panic attacks. His life was crumbling from within and he knew he had to make a change. You'll hear how Mike came to recognize his issues, how he started on the path to address them, and how he manages himself on this ongoing journey.
You can learn more about Mike by visiting www.mjttraining.com and you can follow him on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mjttraining/
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![Cut The Crap | A Look At My New Book](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Sep 18, 2023
Cut The Crap | A Look At My New Book
Monday Sep 18, 2023
Monday Sep 18, 2023
Fatherhood is a huge topic of discussion and a journey of continual learning. It can feel a little intimidating. Because there is so much associated with fatherhood, I wrote a book to provide a good starting point for dads.
I won't beat around the bush or waste your time with endless details. In a world of parenting manuals that could rival War and Peace, filled with pages upon pages of hypotheticals, this is your succinct companion. I lay out six foundational components for you to begin paying attention to and focusing on now. Inspired by the Bible, I’ve distilled a Christian perspective that's both powerful and practical.
You can get you copy here: https://amzn.to/3Py1vp4
If you purchase the paperback version but you'd like to explore the resources I've linked in the E-book, simply email proof of your purchase to fatheringourfuture@gmail.com and I will send you the E-book as well.
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![Interview with Dr. William Lane Craig | Equipping Our Children To Be Defenders Of Their Faith](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Our mission as fathers is to equip and disciple our children to be a part of God's mission in a greater capacity than ourselves. If we are going to fulfill this mission, we need to ensure that our children do not follow our faith blindly but develop a relationship with Jesus themselves.
To help us learn how we can begin working with our children to help them understand their faith, I am joined by world-renowned Christian apologist, Dr. William Lane Craig. Dr. Craig shares personal stories of how he worked with his children, recommendations on things we can do with our children, and resources he has written to help parents teach their children about their faith in Christ.
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Books referenced in episode
God Is Self-Sufficient: https://amzn.to/44DAt4E
God Is Forever: https://amzn.to/46S954q
The Greatness of God: https://amzn.to/3NVkwzF
God Is All-Loving: https://amzn.to/3NSfW5m
God Is All-Good: https://amzn.to/3NSjPY3
God Is All-Powerful: https://amzn.to/3NWIryY
God Is Spirit: https://amzn.to/3DfPYDW
God Is Everywhere: https://amzn.to/46T9Tq3
Learning Logic: https://amzn.to/3KmOTyn
On Guard: https://amzn.to/3Y0ADkf
Reasonable Faith: https://amzn.to/3XQeIfz
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![Is My Agenda Really That Important?](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Sep 04, 2023
Is My Agenda Really That Important?
Monday Sep 04, 2023
Monday Sep 04, 2023
We all have things we want to do in life. We have goals we want to achieve, disciplines we want to maintain, and daily tasks we want to complete. We all have an agenda but we need to question ourselves periodically and make sure our agendas are really as important as we claim they are.
Over the last couple of months my life has been a whirlwind. My wife had a foot surgery that put her out of commission for a while, leaving all responsibilities on me. The extra workload through off most of my plans, which impacted me negatively. When expectations are not met, I, like everyone else, tend to get slightly frustrated. Sadly, this was passed on to my kids. However, I am so grateful for the experience I am sharing with you today that gave me clarity on the importance of my personal agenda.
I may not have been able to do everything I wanted but I was able to publish my first book: Cut the Crap - Direct Tips for Becoming a Dad. It is a quick read with application questions intended to challenge dads and create action. This book is a great resource for soon-to-be dads and new dads, but I think it can be a good reminder for veteran dads as well. Get your copy HERE!
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![You’re The Dad, Your Kids Are Not | Lesson Learned From Failure](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Aug 28, 2023
You’re The Dad, Your Kids Are Not | Lesson Learned From Failure
Monday Aug 28, 2023
Monday Aug 28, 2023
As fathers, we all experience numerous challenges and setbacks, but it's crucial to understand that failures should not discourage us; rather, they serve as valuable sources of wisdom. When we stumble, we should reflect, learn from our mistakes, and continue with a mindful approach, incorporating newfound insights.
Recently, I had an enlightening experience that helped me apply wisdom learned from a past failure. While working on a project for the kids outside, I asked for my son's assistance in looking after his younger sister. However, my expectations were not met, resulting in a minor disaster that I had to deal with. In that moment, I had a choice as a father: I could have blamed my son for not following my instructions, or I could have recognized that he is just a child and that I am ultimately responsible for his sister's well-being.
I want to inspire you to embrace your identity and responsibility as a dad. Take ownership of your actions, even in times when you may fall short, and strive to become a person who grows and positively influences your children.
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![Interview with Rod Richard | The Call of Fatherhood](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Aug 21, 2023
Interview with Rod Richard | The Call of Fatherhood
Monday Aug 21, 2023
Monday Aug 21, 2023
This week I am collaborating with Rod Richard of 4 Fit Fatherhood. Rod is a girl dad who has been passionate about fatherhood from the start. We talk about his start as a dad and what prompted him to start a podcast aimed at helping other dads by involving them in dad conversations. We also dabble into the topic of social media and when is a good time for our kids to have phones of their own.
If you’d like to learn more about Rod and what he is doing, check out the links below.
https://www.4fitfatherhood.com/
https://www.instagram.com/4fitfatherhood/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/4-fit-fatherhood/id1570733607
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![9 Things We Should Never Say At Mealtime - I Think Not](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Aug 14, 2023
9 Things We Should Never Say At Mealtime - I Think Not
Monday Aug 14, 2023
Monday Aug 14, 2023
I stumbled across an article a while back that addressed 9 things we should never say to our children at mealtime. The premise of the article was that we can create bad impression about food and diets by speaking up about particular things when we are at the table with our kids. For example, telling our kids that they need to finish their broccoli before they can have dessert is apparently a bad idea because our kids' bodies might not want broccoli.
As dads, we are leaders in the home. We are there to serve our children and we cannot do that by disengaging from their lives and not giving the the guidance and direction they need. There are some that would like to encourage us to lose our parental authority but if we want our kids to have an advantage as they mature, we must use our wisdom and authority to make that possible.
Join me as I go through the list of what we should supposedly never say and provide my opinion on these points. There might be a couple of points worth taking away from the article but there might be a lot of ridiculous examples that make you shake your head. Let's have some fun.
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![Principles Always Prevail | Overcoming Chaos & Unfulfillment](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Aug 07, 2023
Principles Always Prevail | Overcoming Chaos & Unfulfillment
Monday Aug 07, 2023
Monday Aug 07, 2023
Are you feeling overwhelmed and dissatisfied with your life? Many fathers today can relate to these sentiments, and it's completely understandable. However, it's important to remember that chaos and unfulfillment don't have to be permanent.
As a dad, it's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that you no longer have time to focus on personal growth and improvement. But being a dad should not be seen as an excuse; in fact, it should be a driving force to strive for personal excellence. The key lies in establishing and living by a set of principles that guide your life.
In this episode, I want to emphasize the transformative power of living a principled life. By consciously adopting and adhering to principles, you can effectively combat and eventually overcome the chaos and unfulfillment you may be experiencing. No matter what challenges you face, dedicating yourself to living each day in alignment with your principles will pave the way for personal growth, continual improvement, and eventual success.
Remember, chaos and unfulfillment are not permanent states. By prioritizing personal development and embracing a principled approach to life, you can regain control and find fulfillment. So, let's dive deeper into the importance of principles and how they can help you navigate the complexities of fatherhood and achieve a more meaningful and satisfying life.
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![Interview with Rev. Darren Gilbert | Fathering While Your Wife Battles Cancer Pt. 2](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Jul 31, 2023
Monday Jul 31, 2023
We often try to plan for the worst even though we never expect it to happen, but sometimes it does. My friend, Darren Gilbert, a pastor in Denison, TX, joins me to talk about the struggles he and his family endured. As he and his wife were stepping into the pastoral role, his wife was diagnosed with Leukemia.
In addition to dealing with his personal life and his family, Darren still had to lead his church. He discusses how he managed to do that and how he received council and support from his community.
The journey was not easy but God was and is faithful.
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Darren recommended the People Fuel in this episode: https://amzn.to/3Wo1SV5
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![Interview with Rev. Darren Gilbert | Fathering While Your Wife Battles Cancer Pt. 1](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11750781/Podlogo_rvdkxa_300x300.jpg)
Monday Jul 24, 2023
Monday Jul 24, 2023
We often try to plan for the worst even though we never expect it to happen, but sometimes it does. My friend, Darren Gilbert, a pastor in Denison, TX, joins me to talk about the struggles he and his family endured. As he and his wife were stepping into the pastoral role, his wife was diagnosed with Leukemia.
This battle with cancer put a lot of responsibility on him that was once shared between he and his wife. Darren opens up to talk about the stress and struggles that came with this journey and how he and his family made it through.
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For more content make sure to check out https://fatheringourfuture.com/ and if you'd like to support this effort visit: https://fatheringourfuture.com/support/